15 Mar It’s all about being together !!
What happens to us in our life cannot be determined by us. It is upto the fate, god, destiny or whatever you call it. Life is always a roller coaster. There are ups and downs in the journey or ride. Though we do not know what life brings to us, we can change the way we react to it. When life turns upside down, it is upto you to decide whether to stay down or get up. Having a positive attitude always help.
I am a pampered girl at home and I am loved by one and all. Many a times I have felt like a princess. When I was in my teenage, I had a crush on a guy. I saw him at many places where I went and I developed a liking for him without knowing anything about that guy. I started day dreaming. Later, I came to know that he is my friend’s friend and we both got introduced. He proposed me after a few months. In the beginning everything was nice. Those moments bought butterflies in my stomach. After two years, he disappeared saying our vibes do not match.We were both very immature at that time that we had to break up. We had no idea how to be happy together no matter how much we liked each other. I was tossed around like a coin. I was left heartbroken. I was shattered. I felt a deep cut in my heart. I neglected everyone around, cried every night, punched the pillows, shouted on everyone and stayed lonely most of the times. I even tried to cut my veins. They say only time can heal everything but I felt like only his presence could. You know sometimes even the most amicable breakups can be painful. I pretended that I am fine.
As I grew up, I realized that it’s okay to be hurt or angry. I got a best friend via Facebook. One day, I came back from college and reached home, I changed into my shorts and logged into my FB. I accepted a friend request. A little chat window popped and we chatted for some time. I came to know that the guy chatting is again my friend’s friend. We had our school mates as mutual friends. He told me that he likes me. I narrated him my story and told that I will never trust anyone thereafter. He listened to everything patiently. He told okay we can be friends and never forced me to do anything. We met during my Journey to Bangalore for taking up the internship in an advertising company. We had a wonderful time at Bangalore for 15 days. We hanged out to cafes, restaurants, shopping complex, park and tourist places. I was happy all over again. We went for walks in cool breeze. I found out that we have the same wavelength and realized that everyone is not the same. I am happy to have got his company. He promised me that even if he cannot fix my problems, I need not have to face over those alone. We are together till now from that day. It’s been five years and our relationship is still the same. Today we are soul-mates because we were meant to be together. I have never had a fall because he is there to hold me every time I do. I’ve filtered unworthy people out of my life who bring nothing to it and don’t add any value. I no longer have the time or energy for meaningless friendships, forced interactions or unnecessary conversations with strangers. All it matters to me is my time and how can I make the most out of it. I stay with people who love me and make me feel comfortable and ease. Being together with people who deserve you can help you to move on.
Embrace the optimism and let go of the negativity around. You will feel much better in your life. Stay Cheerful!
Housing believes in the inimitable power of optimism. We also know that it’s difficult to be optimistic all day, every day; and sometimes we need a little nudge to get back on track! This is the time we need to be with the ones we love the most. Most times, it’s the company that matters more than the advice, and that is the power of being #together!